I guess the consolation of getting eliminated in a PBA conference is that I get to catch up on my other work and I get to post a new blog entry.
I’ve been wanting to blog about this since I spoke at the
Youth Rally for the Pope in Araneta Coliseum last month.
As we all know, Pope Francis will be here in a few days and
many of us are really excited. The first Jesuit Pope is enjoying an approval
rating that many political leaders would like to have. This is what the church
needs most especially in this day and age when she is facing many long-standing
challenges including dwindling church attendance and the damaged moral
authority of some clergy.
The last time Pope John Paul 2 came to Manila in 1995 for the World Youth Day, I was 10 years old and I was fortunate to have caught a glimpse of him in his Pope Mobile along EDSA-Buendia. I remember my dad carried me on his shoulders so that I could see the Pope pass amidst the sea of people.
The last time Pope John Paul 2 came to Manila in 1995 for the World Youth Day, I was 10 years old and I was fortunate to have caught a glimpse of him in his Pope Mobile along EDSA-Buendia. I remember my dad carried me on his shoulders so that I could see the Pope pass amidst the sea of people.
WHY I LIKE POPE FRANCIS
Personally, there are many things I like about this Pope.
But if I had to choose, I would say it has to be because of his simplicity and
compassion, very fitting with the theme of his Papal visit which is “Mercy
& Compassion”. Right from the moment of his election, he refused the
traditional red cape and opted to hop onto a bus instead of the papal limo. He kissed,
served and showed compassion to the most marginalized people in society.
This reminded me of what Cardinal Tagle taught us in his
keynote speech in our Charis Leadership Summit last year, “The higher we go up the organizational ladder, the lower we should
go and the more we should serve”. This paradox is very true to be an
effective leader because conventional thinking would excite us of the power and
prestige that comes as we move up to the so-called “leadership positions”. When in fact, the higher we go, the more we
should serve. This is what we call Servant
Leadership and Pope Francis is a living example. St. Ignatius, founder of the
Jesuits, reminded us to be humble because Jesus, our role model was humble.
Pope Francis’ passion to serve has challenged the prevalent
culture’s approach to leadership, how leaders live and what they value. Our
culture is becoming self-absorbed and fascinated with superficial pursuits such
as money, power, status and even the number of likes on Instagram, Twitter or
Facebook. On social media, everyone seems to have a ‘perfect’ and nice life.
This is why we should be wary of what we aspire for. Are our goals going to
give us lasting happiness? What will? Again, this Pope reminds us to focus not
on ourselves, but rather on the poor, the sick and those marginalized. Hopefully
in time, it will create a ripple effect from a culture of selfies to a culture
of service.
I think another reason why Pope Francis has become so loved
is because he does not condemn those who are ‘lost’ or confused. But rather, he
listens and welcomes them back home just as God extends His infinite mercy to
us sinners.
PREPARING OURSELVES FOR THE PAPAL VISIT
Now, how do we prepare ourselves for the coming of the
leader of the Catholic Church? Here are three very simple ways that could help
us maximize and fully appreciate his visit.
#1) First is to develop a strong spiritual and prayer life.
Being a Jesuit, Pope Francis himself engaged in what we call the Spiritual
Exercises, this is the core of the Ignatian Spirituality and Jesuit life. It is
a series of meditations that allows one to ponder on your own life, Jesus’ life
and how one can follow Jesus in their own concrete circumstances.
For me, developing a spiritual plan is like creating a
fitness plan. You need to integrate it to your daily life and set aside time
everyday for prayer and reflection. Since I am a busy person, my spiritual
director came up with a plan for me that is workable despite my chaotic
schedule. I’m sure he won’t mind that I share it with you.
1)
5-minute morning prayer the moment I wake up
2)
Visit to the blessed sacrament
3)
Reading of the New Testament for 5 minutes + a
short silent reflection
4)
Night time prayer with 3 Hail Marys
5)
Confession (at least once a month)
This is to be done daily. But I have to admit that many
times, I’ve been a delinquent student.
Now why should we do this? When we are in silent prayer, we
become detached from the daily grind of things. We speak to God and more
importantly, we allow Him to speak to us. Many realizations and conversions
occur during these moments of silence and solitude with our Lord. Also, I
firmly believe that our consequential actions will naturally overflow from the
interior peace and joy that we experience with Him. Lastly, we cannot bring
others to Christ if he doesn’t reside in our hearts. Simply, we cannot give
what we don’t have.
#2) Second basic way to prepare ourselves for the coming of
the Pope is to take care of our academic duties or our work, for those who are
working. Sounds simple right? It is. Oftentimes we take these for granted. But
we forget that our schooling or our jobs are gifts to us from God. We must
value them by practicing excellence, honesty and humility not just for our
personal growth, but also because it is our way of contributing to
nation-building. We may not see the results immediately, but our personal
contributions as well as the virtues we develop will create a more visible
impact to our society eventually. Our nation needs competent and virtuous
leaders, or else we achieve nothing. This is also our best way to show our appreciation
to our Lord for the blessing of an education and a job.
#3) Last is to do our apostolic duties. We all have an
obligation to evangelize or to do “apostolate work”. In the recent World Youth Day in Rio de
Janiero, the Pope called out to the youth, “I want you to make yourselves heard
in your dioceses, I want the noise to go out, I want the Church to go out onto
the streets…”
How do we do this? It start at home, with your closest
family members and friends. There are times when we want to do outreach
activities to the needy or other marginalized sectors of society. This is
wonderful! But we might forget that our most immediate apostolic duties start
at home, by inviting them to pray or simply by being a good parent, son,
daughter, brother, sister, friend, etc. An effective way to be a light of
Christ is by serving as a good example. Like they say, actions speak louder
than words.
Hope this helps, not only in preparation for the coming of
the Pope, but continued even afterwards until it becomes fully integrated in our
lives. It might be difficult at the beginning, but the more we do it, the more it becomes 2nd nature. We may fall at times but what’s important is the constant struggle
and effort to make Christ happy.
Happy weekend folks!
Chris
Wonderful! I truly appreciate this article Kuya Chris not only because I am an avid fan of you but also because I am astonished by the fact that you recognize the importance of continuous development not only in managing organizations but also in managing our individual lives. I am amazed that despite the technological advances that we have, there is still someone like you who continue to guide the newer batches of future leaders or the younger generation (wink wink!) the value of deep processing and reflection. I am very grateful that I have a role model (you :) hehehe) who puts emphasis on the importance of spirituality in our search of genuine happiness.
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Thank you for the inspiration Kuya Chris! Spread the love! <3 Stay happy and in love. God bless! Hope to see you and your wife...hopefully with your children here in Cebu. #HappyEveryday #HappyLemonCebu
Hope you can share your light in our school...
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